On a recent holiday with my kids — one I scrambled to organise after a last-minute change of circumstance — I caught my reflection in a shop window. And I didn’t recognise the woman staring back. She looked like she was doing hard jail time.
I was so sad. I wanted to run away from that reflection and do better for my kids.
But here’s the truth: what I saw wasn’t failure. It was the cost of carrying everything on my own…
Read MoreYou’re not imagining it if December feels less like a finish line and more like a fog.
This time of year, a lot of us feel quietly off-track.
Burnt out. Over it. Wondering where the spark went.
And too tired to figure out what to do next.
Confidence and worth aren’t the same — but they often get confused.
During a session with a client who has been toying with establishing a consultancy post-redundancy, we were mapping out how she can establish herself. Hosting a free webinar was an option we were considering.
Read MoreWhen we’re unsure what’s next, we often default to doing nothing.
That’s why I ask clients these three questions — they sound simple, but they unlock real clarity.
Read MoreI’ve never seen so many clients — and friends — quietly struggling.
Something that’s becoming increasingly obvious is that we’re living in a time of collective struggle. I’ve had this conversation so often, and with so many, that my catchphrase for 2025 is indeed “We’re living in bleak times.”
It’s one of the hardest truths about job interviews — and no one tells you this upfront.
The reason many people fall short at interview isn’t lack of experience, preparation, or even skill.
It’s that they weren’t engaging or relatable enough.
I had a catch up with a long-term client who is nearing the end of her second maternity leave and had been approached about an opportunity elsewhere — one which is more values-aligned, and aligned with her future career goals. She had decided not to pursue the opportunity at this time, and I asked why.
Read MoreMost people stay unhappy at work far longer than they realise.
In my experience, 4 to 5 years is the average time people will spend feeling unhappy about their careers.
Read MoreA couple of years ago, general advice was that job seekers should allow up to 6 months to find their next role.
Focused and active job hunters would move into a new job around the 3 to 4 month mark, and that would have been my advice to clients at the time.
In 2025, the game has changed. Now we’re playing the long game.
Read MoreThis month, I ran a giveaway. One free 90-minute Deep Dive coaching session to celebrate the 4 year anniversary of Small Circle becoming my full-time work.
But what I received in return wasn’t what I expected.
Read MoreI bumped into a local mum earlier in the week, and we stopped for a chat.
She expressed how pleased she was for me that business was going well, and that I was doing great things, and that life was good. She’s such a warm and vibrant person, and always generous in her celebration of others.
The thing is, this week has been a shit show. I don’t feel like I’m winning at all.
Read MoreYou aren’t dying of misery yet.
You’ve secured flexible hours that afford you time to do school drop off or pick up, even if the cost of that flexibility is poor boundaries. You get paid reasonably well for what you do, even if the figure hasn’t gone up as much as you’d like…
Read MoreI spoke on a panel at Melbourne Business School last week, and one of the big themes that came up was soft skills.
You know - the “people” stuff.
Things like building rapport with stakeholders, managing up, resolving conflict, listening deeply, communicating clearly, or showing leadership in tough situations…
Read MoreWant to know what sometimes happens after people come onto a coaching discovery call and realise a) how powerful coaching is and b) how much it can support them in turning their career dreams into reality?
Fear sets in. And it makes sense!
Read MoreThere’s a point (maybe a few) in your career where things get a little ‘sticky’.
It can get a little sticky when the time comes to level up. Scoring that first leadership role is tough - you can’t get experience without being given a shot, and you often won’t get a shot without experience.
You might then find yourself a bit stuck…
Read MoreMy friends and clients know I love a good analogy, and this one is a trusted favourite because it just makes so much sense!
You can approach decisions around career changes the same way you’d make decisions around what to have for dinner.
Seriously.
Let me explain.
Every year in January, I write my CV from scratch. A blank page.
Every year it changes, to align with who I am (or who I’m not) today.
Every year it reflects the direction I would head in, if I went back to corporate.
And every year I wonder if I could ACTUALLY get a job, if I ever decided to re-enter the traditional job-market.
I’ve just returned from a week at the beach with my partner and our four kids, aged 5 to 10 years old, and I’m shattered.
Kids are fucking whiny.
Co-parents can be a pain in the arse.
I struggle without the comfort of my routines and rituals…
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